If you can't be yourself or comfortable in your own skin then what are you? Who will you be? Someone else's image of perfection? How does that empower you? Rid yourself of anything and anyone who makes you apologize or puts you down for being yourself. These situations and people are of most toxicity. Be proud of who you are, and not ashamed at how someone else sees you. People pleasing hides the real your.
THROW AWAY THE WEIGHT THAT HOLDS YOU DOWN
Rid of anything and or anyone who's holding you down. Who does not believe in you and your wishes for the future. Negativity is the most powerful self enemy and just as you let it in to your life, you and only you have the power to kick it out. It's not who you are that hold you back, it's who you think you are not.
Respect yourself, who you are and what you stand for. Don't do things just to please others and especially if it stands against your beliefs. It will only come back to hunt you in the future. Don't be ashamed of your story, it may inspire others; you are your own limit.
BECOME FINANCIALLY INDEPENDANT
Clean your financial house, make a plan to clear any debt and be financially independent this new year. This will allow you to feel better and be proud of yourself and enable you to do the things you really enjoy in life, stress free. Make today's agenda building your empire. Invest first and spend whats left. Be ware of little expenses, a small leak will sink a great ship.
Travel is the best for of education and self liberations, especially solo traveling. I know it sounds scary and out there, but trust me it is by far the best way to get back in touch with yourself, who you are and what you forgot you stood for. Sitting alone with your thoughts in a foreign place while scary is the only way to confront yourself, your fears and your desires. Travel far enough and alone enough to meet yourself.